Confirmation Follow-up
In contrast with the sad development in the “confirmation” at our old ELCA church, I thought I’d share with you this bit of good news. I recently received a letter from our new church regarding the confirmation program my 7th grade son is about to begin. The letter begins with “Thank you for letting us assist you in the spiritual instruction of your child.” I think that opening sentence gives quite a bit of information on whose job it is, who is there to help us and the fact that it is actual instruction and not entertainment. Another letter tells us that since we have added a youth pastor, our church will be adding a third year to the confirmation program. It now starts in 6th grade (boy, is my son relieved about being a 7th grader!)and each grade has their own fully trained pastor. It goes on to say, “As in the past, it continues to be our hope and prayer that you will send your child regularly to class and assist him/her as much as you are able with this spiritual training.” Again, the emphasis on the fact that it is a serious educational program. The letter emphasizes the scriptural purpose for confirmation, reminding us that God’s Word encourages us:
“But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know from those who you learned it, and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Jesus Christ.” 2 Timothy 3:14,15
“But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” 2 Peter 3:18
The letter ends with, “Again, we are privileged to be able to teach your children the Word of God.”






What you described about your former ELCA church’s confirmation program was EXACTLY what our old ELCA megachurch had in place, even down to the Lenten mentors and the WNL program. No mention of real theology anywhere, just pizza parties and a yearly mission trip.
I agree with you that a kid’s parents are the ones responsible for teaching him/her the catechism … but a lot of parents don’t know it themselves.