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Crab Apple Chucking Update

8-31-04 Update - Both sets of parents and the boys met with a really nice police officer. He listened to the boys and gave them a kind lecture. He also listened to our concerns about the man. We ended up filing a report, but also told us that the city attorney probably wouldn’t prosecute. I just wanted the police to have this guy’s name and actions on record, because of the severity of his actions. The officer will meet with the man to hear his side and make sure he understood where he went wrong: He should have just called 911, he could have hurt Erik’s friend while DRAGGING him through the woods by the wrist and he shouldn’t have tried to drag the boys to his car). The man called last night to lower his estimate to $75.00, which I thought was interesting. The police officer also told us that we cannot force the guy to spend the money on repairs - that is his choice. All in all, the boys definitely were in the wrong, were definitely protected by angels and have definitely learned a big lesson. I’ve also learned a lesson - get Erik a job and more chores to keep him busy next summer!!!

In honor of the Olympics…

Athena
Athena

?? Which Of The Greek Gods Are You ??
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Daughter starts high school today!

My oldest child started high school today. Although it is a big milestone in our lives, I hadn’t expected to be emotional about it. And I wasn’t. It was a very happy morning. She was so excited and nervous. She looked so happy and pretty, as only a mother can notice. She acted so maturely; this was nice to see especially since she likes to swing from both sides of the responsibility tree! We arrived 45 minutes early this morning because she wanted to set up her locker. I had helped her bring in some locker supplies and was standing with her at her locker as more and more kids arrived. I started to become conscious that I was the only parent around and that I’d better leave before someone made fun of her! It was fun to be in a school again! I always loved the excitement of the first day of school and I think I passed that sense of excitement on to my daughter.

ELCA Newsflash: redefining confirmation

New ELCA definition of confirmation: to excite and encourage youth to grow in their faith through both large and small group experience and a variety of awesome medium. At the end of confirmation, they will affirm their baptism by their own acceptance of Jesus Christ as their savior.

I have written before about my former ELCA church’s abandonment of Luther’s Small Catechism and scripture study and memorization due to complaints by parents and confirmands that it was too boring. Instead, the confirmation leaders chose the Alpha curriculum (designed for non-believers and based on decision theology) to educate the confirmands. To my horror, and to their pride, last fall the first group of confirmands was confirmed without study’s Luther’s Small Catechism. No scripture memorization and no proof that the confirmand understood the basics of the faith. In keeping with these changes, it was just announced that the Confirmation Service has been renamed. It is now to be called the Affirmation of Baptism Service. See the announcement below, copied from their website today and found it their September newsletter:

Confirmation - For youth in grades 7, 8 & 9
A time when youth explore their faith and affirm their baptism by their own acceptance of Jesus Christ as their savior.
Our goal is to excite and encourage youth to grow in their faith through both large and small group experience and a variety of awesome medium. Confirmands will actively participate in Wednesday Night Live (WNL) - our large group experience, retreats, group service projects and personal service. During the Lenten season, confirmands partner with a mentor for Wednesday evening services to participate and discuss the character portrayal of the week


It doesn’t mention any curriculum. I was a confirmation leader two years ago and I know firsthand that there really isn’t any. The goal of the program is to keep the kids entertained enough to keep coming to church because it is fun. And that is the confirmation program – have fun and do a service project once in a while. The thought is that they will keep coming through college and into adulthood. I do understand the desire to keep youth coming to church - every church faces that battle. However, it is not possible to justify cutting the educational purpose of confirmation just to keep them entertained. Will singing “Our God is an awesome God” help you if you don’t know enough scripture to turn and walk away from an abusive boyfriend, or pressure for premarital sex or the allure of a cult?
This self-proclaimed mega-church churns out about 200 “confirmands” each year. At the very least, I will pray for the many unsuspecting and uninformed parents who don’t read the monthly newsletter or follow their kids’ education closely enough. It is reassuring that several of these confirmands attend a confessional Lutheran high school and will be exposed to the whole story of salvation there.

God told me to write this post: the fruitlessness of seeking God apart from His Word

There is a blog post I’ve been trying to write for a while now, but am having trouble putting my thoughts into words. I especially want to explain myself in a positive way. This week I’ve had several occasions to discuss this topic with people and that has helped me a little. I’ve got more to say, but, as often happens, others do a better job of expressing my own experiences than I can sometimes do. That’s the great thing about blogs; we often share experiences even though most of us have never met each other.

I’ve contemplated and now written about my occasional feelings of bitterness toward my involvement with the evangelical world before coming to confessional Lutheranism. I don’t want to be a bitter person, but I do want to help others avoid the mistakes in judgment I made.

I can’t tell you how many times (thousands or more?) I’ve heard people say, “God laid it on my heart.” or “God spoke to me in a …dream, prayer, while I was exercising, while I was driving or __________ (fill in the blank). I spent years reading books on knowing God’s will, how to be filled with the Holy Spirit, how to hear God speak to you, etc. The courses I took and churches I attend are fully endorsed by the evangelical world and there isn’t really a need to name them. In not one of these courses or churches was I told I was already filled with the Holy Spirit. I know that I was reminded that God’s word is true and timeless, but I was also told that he continues to speak today through other people. This opened the doors to all types of false teachings, most of which were well-intentioned by sincere people. I have learned that I must accept the blame myself for not being more educated in scripture, although my parents believed they were doing that. I am glad for the opportunity I have to make sure that my two kids are well-schooled in scriptural truths.
Consider the following pieces:

Chris Williams: “Apparently, God can lay whatever your subconscious mind wants Him to lay on your heart, even if it’s completely contradictory to what He laid on someone else’s heart, or what He has revealed in His Word.”

Bill MacKinnon: “I have a Bible, and God speaks to me whenever I open it.”

TK: Telling the whole story of salvation

TK: Why it’s not a good idea to follow your inner voice - humorous, with a serious point

TK: Name this Luther passage

TK: Baptism

Can anyone relate to my experience? Does anyone have any other good blog posts for me to add to this list? I know there are many, but I can’t spend anymore time right now looking.

Back to School Quiz

This quiz is not accurate to the good old 1970’s, but it’s still funny anyway. My daughter writes one of these quizzes at least once a week, so I will have her show me how to do one for my generation.


Take the What High SchoolStereotype Are You? quiz.

An August story: Yet another reason why kids don’t need 10 weeks off school each summer!!!

Two Minnetonka boys, both ages 12, get caught chucking crab apples at a car in the General Mills Credit Union Drive Up. Driver jumps out of car, grabs boys, scares the **** out of them and marches them to one boy’s house. Driver yells at the boys some more and then yells at the mom and then drives off to get a $150.00 estimate. Boys are sent to their rooms for the day and will have to each fork over $75.00 for the results of their “excellent adventure”. Boys are physically fine, but scared and worried. Grandpa comments: “Well, there are two lessons to be learned in this situation. The first is not to get caught and the second is not to chuck apples at cars.” Dad calls other mom at work and she chuckles until he gets to the part about the car damage and the money owed. Mom at work decides this would make a great blog post.

Any thoughts on appropriate punishments? Erik will lose two weekends of wages dog-sitting for his grandparents while they visit ill great-grandfather. Computer is definitely a good punishment tool these days - as in NO computer privileges. I also considering the fact that he is very scared right now and will probably never do THAT particular deed again.

Update: Boys were roughed up more than we first knew and the guys was trying to drag them into HIS CAR. The other parents are meeting with the police today to discuss pressing charges.

Which Rock Chick are you?

This is funny! Definitely PG 13. Fun for the girls, but it would be fun to see what the guys are. There is probably a Rock Dude quiz. I’ll look for it when I have nothing else to do today!


Which Rock Chick Are You?

Olympic Judging Reversals - Has anyone contacted the FCC?

Last night’s Olympic judging reversal was a travesty to the nature of sport. I’m as offended by watching a judge fold under the pressure of a booing crowd and change his score as I was by being forced to watch Janet Jackson’s boob! I am sorry my children watched it, too . What message was just sent to the world’s children last night? That if you boo loudly enough you can get your favorite athlete’s score changed??? Did anyone else see this travesty?

For further commentary, read Strakalogue at Fox News.

Hello from Chicago!

Dear all,

Hello from Chicago! This is our second visit to Chicago in 8 days. We stayed here last Saturday and Sunday night before departing on our adventure. Since then, we have logged 3000 miles. Now we are stopping back at Chicago on our way home. Funny thing about Chicago is that we thought it was way too big and busy last weekend, but now I feel like I have come home. Not home to Chicago, but home to “my” part of the country. We have decided that we are definitely Cubs fans, although we will always love the Twins. Can anyone guess what my totally tightwad husband willingly paid for Cubs tickets…to a scalper on the street?

It has been strange to visit so many unfamiliar places in one week. I think I have some interesting anecdotes to share. I have been trying to take notes as we go, so that I can remember things when I get home. The only problem with journaling is that my writing is terrible and I only found time to write when we were traveling for hours on end and I had nothing better to do! I have taken loads of digital photos and I hope to figure out how to post my photos to our web home page (that I’ve had for two years but never have taken the time to develop).

One interesting last point: I’ve lost some weight, toned my stomach and back and my digestive tract has not felt this well in a long time. This tells me that sitting on my butt for 3000 miles and eating at McDonald’s, Wendy’s or Tim Horton’s is better for me than sitting at a desk for 6 to 8 hours each day and driving my kids around for another 1 to 2 hours a day. Please explain! Obviously, we did lots of walking at each destination.

Well, I could keep writing for ever, but it’s actually 9:32pm and I’m sitting in a hotel lobby. I will write more soon. Erik is begging us to go to the top of the Sears Tower tomorrow morning, but both Rob and I get sick at great heights. Don’t know what we will end up doing about that situation! Can’t wait to get home…my mom called to tell me that our refrigerator died. Everything was spoiled and she cleaned it out for us. What a sweetheart! Rob is hoping that it isn’t the compressor, because ServicePlus doesn’t cover that. I just hope that the smell will be gone by tomorrow night.

Hope you enjoyed this digital postcard!

With love,

Theresa, Rob, Kris and Erik